Ignorance is bliss…that’s what the saying goes like…
We attract what we project. That’s a universal law. For a long time I used to say, that the only thing that makes me lose it all is ignorance. I never understood how some could ignore others so bad. How could they not answer messages, how could they not care.
I have been reading a book by Debbie Ford called "The Dark Side of the Light Chasers" and have gone through exercises. She reminds us, how in order to feel whole, we need to embrace everything about us
Ignorance is bliss…that’s what the saying goes like…
I started to dive into Human Design with the same intention than I did with all the other trainings I have ever taken. And the multipassionate me is absolutely unable to make a difference on which baby I prefer.
All my trainings and all my certifications are my babies. I have dedicated time, dedication, love, passion, blood, tears, sweat and all the jazz together.
There's something about that Human Design Baby though. People I just have met and who let me study their design, opened up more than people I knew since forever.Read More
There's a word that keeps on popping up everywhere I look. A word that is used so often that it has become so normal to read about it. Something that a lot of successful people use as their asset. A word that you have probably heard as well. The word is called Mindset.
As I was reading about some people writing about on how important and necessary it is to have the right mindset, I felt a big knot in my gut moving up to my throat and then saying out loud: Bullshit!
How could that happen? Everyone is so hyped on having the right mindset.
The most common "disease" today is the feeling of not being good enough. It's become even so much more epidemic with social media. We are being exposed to people that live the apparent perfect life and are perfect over all.
So often we wish to be just like them. There is absolutely nothing wrong with that. I even think it's very important to see what is possible, as long as it's authentic.
Yet, we more often see the endgoal instead of first looking inwards. We work like a GPS system when it comes to reaching a goal. If we don't assess where we stand right now, how can we know which direction to go?
We all heard the saying that the truth lies within us, right?
Does that mean that everything around us is a lie? At lot of times it seems as if everything around us is an illusion and keeping us from being our true authentic self, would you agree?
As I wrote this message, I realized that this is more of a personal reminder but I'll share it with you as well :-)
In a glimpse, August 20th to be exact, is my first year anniversary, which of course got me reflecting on quite some things…
Catching dreams sounds great, let's do it!
Once you have defined that dream and are motivated AF, you know that nothing is going to stop you from reaching it. You've been working so hard to reach it, you've dedicated so much time, money, energy to to get one step closer. And no matter what life is going to throw at you, you have the right bat to throw it right back, because you're invincible and committed.
Then, life sends you her friend called reality. Reality is going to challenge hell out of you. It's her job to remind you to ask questions. Questions that you probably know just as well as I do:
Official definition of Serendipity: the occurrence and development of events by chance in a happy or beneficial way.
Have you ever experienced it? That moment that makes you go "Hold on, is this for real?" That moment, where things just kind of "align"?
Is it luck? Sometimes it is and sometimes it really is a sort of reward, would you agree?
That moment when you realize that all the effort of catching dreams was worth this moment.
Yet, so often we get into moments where we want to throw it all away.
Have you ever felt like you don't belong where you are? People look like you, talk the same language, are your "friends" or "family". Yet, everything what so called society makes you believe is right or wrong, just doesn't feel like a fit for you? So So get this!! There's nothing wrong with you.
Feeling fine. Isn't that what we're all longing for at the end of the day?
And do we know the feeling of being the stranger in our own life? Especially when it comes to catching dreams. I for sure do. It can get lonely for various reasons. We need to narrow down what it is that we really want.
That's what I told myself last Saturday, where I had my very first singing performance ever. And although I've been preparing for it for months and although my teacher told me I'm ready, I felt so freaking nervous.
And because we need some challenges every now and then, I picked two songs that were demanding for me. One song pushed me to take it easy in front of strangers. The other song was not only a challenge vocally but also emotionally. Oh my freaking...!!!
Oh, I know I am sometimes a mystery to myself. How about you?
This happens because we live in a time and age where we're forced to use our mind. And because the voices in our mind are so damn loud, we tend to overhear the softer tones that are coming from a way deeper place. Call it your gut, your soul, your heart, your intuition. If you picture it, the mind is actually quite small compared to the the sum of the other voices.
How come then, that we give it so much more attention? Plus, how come, that we give our mind the priority when it comes to making decisions?