If Only... Are You Afraid Of The Uncertain?

Have you ever felt like you don't belong where you are? People look like you, talk the same language, are your "friends" or "family". Yet, everything what so called society makes you believe is right or wrong, just doesn't feel like a fit for you? So So get this!! There's nothing wrong with you.

Feeling fine. Isn't that what we're all longing for at the end of the day?
And do we know the feeling of being the stranger in our own life? Especially when it comes to catching dreams. I for sure do. It can get lonely for various reasons. We need to narrow down what it is that we really want.

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I did it!

That's what I told myself last Saturday, where I had my very first singing performance ever. And although I've been preparing for it for months and although my teacher told me I'm ready, I felt so freaking nervous. 
And because we need some challenges every now and then, I picked two songs that were demanding for me. One song pushed me to take it easy in front of strangers. The other song was not only a challenge vocally but also emotionally. Oh my freaking...!!! 

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Are you a mystery to yourself?

Oh, I know I am sometimes a mystery to myself. How about you?

This happens because we live in a time and age where we're forced to use our mind. And because the voices in our mind are so damn loud, we tend to overhear the softer tones that are coming from a way deeper place. Call it your gut, your soul, your heart, your intuition. If you picture it, the mind is actually quite small compared to the the sum of the other voices. 
How come then, that we give it so much more attention? Plus, how come, that we give our mind the priority when it comes to making decisions? 

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What follows after setting the tone?

Dreams are such a vulnerable place, right? We know we have them, yet following through is quite a challenge sometimes, do you agree?
Sometimes, it can become so overwhelming, that we'd rather stick our head in the sand and let our buttcheeks burn in the sun (if only summer was here already!).

I for sure have been there and still am sometimes. But guess what: Welcome to being human! Those peaks and valleys are absolutely natural and happen to all of us. All the difference comes to the way we react on it. 

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What dream of yours is hiding under the blanket?

The question of all questions, right?

Am I, or am I not? Is it "worth" the effort or is it not? Am I going to stay under this cozy and protecting blanket or am I going to expose myself and do it the heck anyway? 
What actually is going to happen when others actually realize that I exist? 

Oh my...these questions are all too familiar to me. To you as well? 

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Your definition of Hell

Are you familiar with the following quote?: "Someone once told me the definition of Hell: The last day you have on earth, the person you became will meet the person you could have become" 

Does that make you want to take a deep breath too? 

Not to seldom, we assume we still have time to do...in ...
Deeeeeeep down inside we know that it's an excuse, because we know that life can be over in just a glimpse. Or it can take an unexpected turn in no time. 

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Does that all make sense?

Our personal Dreamland doesn't have any boundaries, does it? It is a vast landscape filled with beautiful, fun things, that make us happy. 

Yet, we like to drown ourselves in excuses like: I'm too old, I'm not talented enough, I'm not lucky, etc....Those are excuses. And you know what excuses are as well? I love to answer that with following quote:  "Excuses are lies your fears have sold you"

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Show Up!

As the Dreamer that I am, and working as the Dreamcatcher Coach, I of course fully believe that dreams are our guide and absolutely achievable. 

What if, we change perspectives and see our dreams as goals?

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