I want to make my Confidence grow
Hey Dreamcatcher :-)
How many of us know these people, who seem to have it all together? They show so much Confidence, they're successful, talented, beautiful and what not.
A lot of times, it's those people we see on screen or we listen to their songs. Those people we follow on Social Media and secretly envy for having the life, that we wished we have.
"If only, I was: beautiful, talented, confident, lucky, rich, loved, supported....". If you have ever caught yourself saying that, then I would love to know your answer to: "Then what?"
Confidence is not a born talent. It's work. Some, yes, have been lucky and have been trained very early on to work this muscle. And then, there are people like me, who had to work on it.
I used to follow a class by Mel Robbins who said "Confidence is simply making the decision to try". You don't know if you don't try, right?
You want to go for your dreams? How many times did you try? Have you seen Lady Gaga's speech at the Oscars this year? She said "...it’s not about how many times you get rejected or you fall down and get beaten up, but how many times you stand up, and are brave and you keep on going.”
How often did you start something and pushed through? How often did you start something and gave up?
When I first sat on a bike I fell down. Just like the felt 100 times after that first attempt. And yet, I know how to ride a bike today.
Or ladies might know that situation: Yeeeeears ago, I tried to use an eyeliner for the first time. I completely messed up the first thousand times. Back then, there was no YouTube or Internet. On my very first dancing performance, we were backstage getting ready for the show (We did a Janet Jackson Choreo, OMG, we were so good hahaha). It was then, when I saw one of the girls, doing one thing that helped me swing that Eyeliner ever since.
What I am saying is, everything is a muscle. And everyone has a different approach on working that muscle. However, finding the right approach can be quite a challenge, right? Let me give you a little push: It all starts within you. And that's the haaaardest part. We grow up with so many beliefs, that hunt us, that limit us, that keep us from going for our dreams. It doesn't have to be that way.
I never wanted to have a career, I never wanted the fame, the money, having an own business. Ever! Why? Because I had the belief that, all of this would lead me to: struggle, fights, sleepless nights, no time for anyone and anything, sacrifices and so much more. It was only, after starting my trainings in holistic health and life coaching a few years ago, that for the first time, I have been confronted with facing those beliefs and installing my own.
Today, after my trainings, amazing courses, workshops and experiences, I have so many tools for your self-discovery and so much grit in supporting you all the way in keeping you accountable. That's my mission as you know :-) I want to see you own your dreams. I want to know, that despite falling down, you will have the muscles to get back up and do.the.work!
In my Webinar, I have been talking about the advantages of Self-Knowledge and about the Self-Criticism that is so often keeping us from living our dreams. Have you seen it already? If not, make sure to subscribe, to not only get a gift on “how to rediscover your Creativity” but also the Link to the Webinar!
Also, please know, I'm just a click away for any questions, feedback, conversation. And make sure to share the content with other Dreamcatchers :-) Till then, let's catch your dreams!
Big hugs to you,